The Momentum Method-The Secret to Building Passion and Desire with Your Guy

The Secret to Building Passion and Desire with Your Guy Lots of things matter in life. Your career. Your health. Your finances. But nothing matters quite as much as your relationships. I mean, think about it.

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What’s the fun of “succeeding” if there’s no one there to celebrate it with you? Even something as simple as a beautiful sunset loses much of its significance if there’s no one by your side to enjoy it with you. Though I should confess… I am a little biased.

Because I’m a professional relationship coach. Which means I spend my days helping people get the relationships they want. And I spend my off-hours investing in the people that make my life rich and rewarding. So my world pretty much revolves around relationships.

Helping people find romantic bliss is what I do. Does that sound fun to you? Well, I can tell you it is, but it hasn’t always been that way. You see, people only look for me when something’s going wrong in their relationship world.

There have been days when I left the office with an aching heart. Too many stories of emotional pain. Too many people I care about people I hold in my heart- feeling lonely or rejected. People who deserve joy and laughter and meaningful connections with a person who claims them as their own. You know what I’m talking about, right? Romantic relationships.

Two people discover a special kind of joy in each other’s arms. Two people who want each other more than anything else. It’s exciting. It’s beautiful. And it’s worth going after. But sometimes you don’t know how to go after it.

The man you love could be standing right in front of you, but you simply don’t know how to win his heart. Or problems rob your relationship of momentum before it can become what it was meant to be.

It’s not fair! You can see what you want. And you’re willing to work REALLY hard to get it. But something is blocking your way.

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What's blocking your love life? 

Well, it comes down to this. There's nothing to grab on to! You can't get a foothold.  
It's like being at the bottom of a pit with perfectly smooth walls, rounded on all sides. You can't climb your way out if there's nothing to grab hold of.  
The pit is just wide enough so that you cannot reach both sides at once.

All the motivation in the world won't help you out of this situation. You need someone to throw you a rope.  
But I have good news...  
I'm about to throw you a rope.  

How To Build Relationship Momentum Fast:

Momentum matters. Your relationship needs forward momentum. Without it you feel stuck in the mud. Like a race car with tons of horsepower but tires that spin uselessly in a muddy ditch.  
But with momentum everything changes.  
With a running start, any car could coast past the muddy patch...even with flat tires. Pure momentum. It's powerful stuff.  
That's what I want for your relationship. Momentum in the right direction.  
I don't care where things stand between you and your man right now. Maybe he's a guy you've set your sights on. Or maybe you're already in some form of relationship with him.  
Regardless, I'm going to show you how to use momentum to your advantage. I'm going to share three secrets for building momentum in your romantic relationship.  

And Here's the Really Good News:

Just like he can sense frustration, irritation, and annoyance, he can also sense the opposite. He can sense the positive, alluring vibe that happens when you focus on what you have to offer him.  

But there's more to it than just that.  

Something changes inside you when you adopt this belief system. The belief that you have something incredibly valuable to offer.  

It changes the way you think. And it changes the way you think in such a way that you begin to automatically build momentum.  

The way you build momentum is by investing in a future you feel confident about. You begin to take small actions that reflect the confidence you feel in what the relationship will become.  

Why is this happening? 

As a relationship coach with years of experience, I can take a pretty good guess. It's ambivalence.  
In other words, he feels pulled in two different directions.  
He wants the good stuff that comes from his relationship with you. But he's nervous about what it all means.  
Men go through several stages in life. Each stage changes how they react to the prospect of a committed relationship. I teach courses about those different stages, but it's beyond the scope of what we're trying to accomplish here. So let me just give one summary statement.  
Men like to win.  
From the time they are boys, males hesitate to take on a challenge unless they have a certain level of confidence in a positive outcome.  
How does that impact his approach to relationships? Well, in a relationship he wants to "win" at gaining your approval and status.  
But wait a minute. If that's true, why is he holding back? Can't he tell you want to move things forward? And the answer comes down to this:  
A commitment creates a threat.  
The threat comes from his fear of loss. You see, men judge themselves and other men based on accomplishments. It's like a rite of passage. If you want to become a real man, you have to have a mission. It's like the modern version of going on a hunt and coming back with something to show for it.  
He has dreams about making a difference in the world, or proving his worth by earning lots of money, or proving his worth by helping lots of people.  

Give him a clear definition of success. 

That's it. But let me tell you why it works.  
You see, he's not afraid of having a fantastic relationship with you. He's not afraid of succeeding with you. He's not afraid of creating something deep and meaningful with you.  
Rather, he's afraid of failure. He's afraid of giving you the wrong idea and then changing his mind.  

How To Build Relationship Momentum Fast:

Momentum matters. Your relationship needs forward momentum. Without it you feel stuck in the mud. Like a race car with tons of horsepower but tires that spin uselessly in a muddy ditch. But with momentum everything changes. With a running start, any car could coast past the muddy patch...even with flat tires. Pure momentum. It's powerful stuff. That's what I want for your relationship. Momentum in the right direction. I don't care where things stand between you and your man right now. Maybe he's a guy you've set your sights on. Or maybe you're already in some form of relationship with him. Regardless, I'm going to show you how to use momentum to your advantage. I'm going to share three secrets for building momentum in your romantic relationship.

The Key to Jumpstarting Your Momentum Here's the truth about why momentum works. It sets off a chain reaction. Most people feel stuck because they try to charge after romantic bliss. They look for the most direct route. But it only results in heartache. Visit our Free Presentation on how to become His Secret Obsession And I need to tell you something... If you're a woman who is used to succeeding in life, romance can be particularly frustrating for you. That's because you've learned how life works. You see what you want and you decide you're willing to pay the price to get it. Typically, the "price" is a lot of hard work. You put in that hard work and you usually get the reward you were going after. But relationships don't work that way. You can't change the way someone else feels about you simply by trying harder. You need a different tactic. I'd like to show you something that works better. It's a method for building momentum in your relationship. It comes down to this very simple idea... Create momentum by setting off a series of small chain reactions. Then let the power of those chain reactions builds your momentum automatically. and effortlessly. The rest of this report is about showing you how to do just that. And we're going to start with a simple idea anyone can use in their relationship.

Secret #1: Think beyond the First Step:

The hardest part about building momentum is the very first step. A train can transport a lot of cargo, using a very small amount of fuel. And once the train's momentum builds, you better stay out of its way. But from a stopped position, the train can barely move at all. It can feel like that in your relationship. Which is why a lot of people never bother with trying to build momentum. After a first attempt to budge the relationship forward, it feels hopeless. Nothing changed.

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