Is LoVe A Tragedy?

Some tragedies end in death , some in  destruction while some in Chaos but whatever the situation , the protagonist almost always accepts responsibilities for his mistake and fights for a larger cause.

Every love story is a tragedy , in the end , but that's what makes them beautiful & so cherished in the minds and hearts of those who remember them.

Well tragedy is a loss of both people involved. Heartbreak over lost love and the missed opportunity for received love.

But can LOVE be TRAGIC ?

Love is not an acronym or abbreviation. Instead it's a word of its own meaning , "long lasting original valuable emotions" .

Although it's a set of emotions and behaviour characterized by intimacy , passion and commitment which involves care , closeness , protectiveness , attraction , affection and respect between people.

Then how can love be a sad event when it consists of such things which connect a person to another ?

'Tragedy of love' is to some extent a contradiction in terms of love is the great force that United and binds it is what from the man to leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife.

Can a ROMANCE be TRAGIC?

Many of the most compelling stories are tragic once from Romeo and Juliet to Ennis & Jack , from Hamlet to Julius Caesar and Oedipus Rex .

Does love and sex are the same?

Love and sex are NOT the same thing. Love is an emotion or a feeling. There is no one definition of love because the word "love" can mean many different things to many different people. Sex, on the other hand, is a biological event which can take place by even attraction sometimes . 

If someone is wanting to spend a lot of time with you outside of the bedroom, if they’re sharing really personal and intimate details about themselves, if they’re asking you a lot of questions and seem invested in learning about you, if they’re introducing you to family and friends, or making future plans with you, these are all likely indicators of love. Meanwhile, if someone only wants to spend time with you in bed and doesn’t seem invested in your life beyond the walls of the bedroom, odds are you’re dealing with only intimacy but not love ..

Is love an essential part of life ?

Without love you can achieve but never be satisfied - if satisfied then can never be happy and happiness is what makes a person a successful human or else depression , lamentations are all over the globe .  No love Develops hatred with each other. There will be only chaos. May lose the ability to survive. It's hard to live without love And that's hard to say for someone who lost their best friend, their soul mate, and the love of their life. But I realised that love does not have to be with the person who is physically here with you.

      At the end love is not a tragedy but an emotion , a feeling with which a people lives their life with happiness , enjoyment vibing around others instead of lamenting , depressing , being anxious .

It is clearly said that "Close the window that hurts you no matter how beautiful the view is.."

But what's that love which doesn't give you pain..??

love is a traditionally joyous feeling, it's less pure or true if we experience depression, anxiety, or even physical pain alongside it.

The view could be a person, a place or a memory, but If it hurts, you need to close the window. Do not allow the light from the pain to hurt you. You can change positions, location or anything to shut the light of pain out.

                                                              ~ vartica