Life..........

Life is not easy, but it is not difficult if you look in posotove way. Whether life is easy or difficult can be determined by the way a person lives his life. Life is like a bottomless sea, we cannot tell how deep it is, and we cannot tell how deep to sink into it. It is up to us to live a very easy life just floating on the water in the bottomless ocean of this life or to risk our lives and dive deep and enjoy the inner scene (risking our lives and taking big risks and succeeding in it and celebrating it with joy). Submerged deep in this sea of life, it is greater than infinity, and if merely floating above the water, it is many times smaller than an a

moeba. Life cannot be compared. If you can think, then you can do anything in this world. You just have to think about doing something. Life is like a fantasy of your own making. You imagine in your mind, even it happens in your life, because by imagining you yourself decide what should happen in my life and you start moving in that direction. So always keep positive thinking. Life can never be contained in our head or mind, it is much bigger than we think, and thinking that much will shorten our life. Because the journey of human life continues in 2 directions, one is Vertically and the other is Horizontally. A man's Horizontally life ends before he realizes how deep his life is Vertically. So we have to decide how deep to go vertically in life and how far to go horizontally. Life is so big that we cannot measure it in any unit. And even if we go to count, we will get the answer "Infinity" whose value even mathematics has not yet discovered. Everyone is afraid of the word "Infinity" even mathematics because nobody knows the exact value of infinity yet. That is, even mathematics cannot tell how long life is, that's why by thinking too much about the future, we will not achieve even 0.01% success in our life. We must learn to live in the present. Because, we cannot know how long our life is, our life time may be only till tomorrow or till next day or till next week, we cannot decide that. Just like in mathematics, if we get the answer to a question as "infinity", we stop there and assume that this is the final answer, because neither we nor mathematics know the value of infinity. So assuming that infinity is the final answer, we move on to the next question. In much the same way as "How long is life?" When we ask this question, the answer comes to us as "Infinity", because according to mathematics, that which we cannot give an exact value is infinite. Therefore, without thinking about it too much, we should leave this question here and make the most of the time we have in our hands and make use of it in life.

There is little to talk about life. As we walk, we see something new. Everyone's point of view is different. someone is looking at that thing from a positive point of view (Positive Thinking) and someone is looking at it from a negative point of view (Negative Thinking). looking at the things from which point of view and how to think about things and wha to learn from it is a personal question of everyone. In fact, we can learn positive from everything in this world, we should have the strength to look at everything positively. The world is so big, it seems us from the point of view as we see it. We cannot decide how the world should behave, or what to do, but we can decide what to learn from anything, that is in our hands.

Everything in this world is not as you like. Either we ourselves have to walk like the world or we must be able to teach the world how to walk like us. Actually, both these ways are difficult. In fact, life used to always put two ways in front of us. Both paths are difficult to observe, but it depends on our thinking that we decide which is the easy path and which is the difficult one. And he who finds both ways easy wins in life. Like in the example above, to change ourselves or to teach the world to behave like us. As difficult as it is to change the world, it is twice as difficult to change yourself. Human brain is always based on the culture that has been imparted on him since childhood, his observation of the surroundings from the beginning, the environment at home and the experiences he has had from all these, the things he has learned from observation, with help of all these things the human brain is overcoming the current events or the current situation. Therefore, experiences are very important in life. Without experience one can never move forward. A perfect personality cannot be formed without experience. No one is perfect in the world. But we should decide how to be perfect for ourselves. No one in the world is perfect, so never make the mistake of comparing yourself to someone else and never underestimating yourself or being self-deprecating. To hold fast to the word "I" means to have self-respect but no pride at all. Because a proud man does not know himself what is going on in his life, but from the same point of view a self-respecting man will never go wrong. Whatever he does, he will have complete control over it, never comparing himself with anyone in the world, but making such an impression or form of himself that no one dares to come and compare him with anyone. Just keep one thing in your mind that "We are a diamond that cannot be compared to anyone." But that diamond (person) should also have the same thoughts, otherwise there is no use in just thinking like that, one should also act like that. There are many people in this world, teaching the world, just pretending that they are the perfect, but their behavior is not even 0.1 % like perfection. Such people should introspect and be ashamed of themselves and realize that time has not yet passed and change themselves. One should note, the world is for laughing. So, ignore what anyone says and does, just focus on yourself. There is no doubt that you should first learn to value yourself, then the world will value you. This is a universal truth. Even beggars have their own value in this world. It may be his compulsion to beg or he has some needs, we don't want to talk about those things or we don't want to hate or insult anyone, but even while begging, if we give with respect, humility, love only if the person is begging rather than begging. Or she accepts help and fulfills her need. Because asking out of need, not out of helplessness, well there are many people in this world who choose the path of helplessness, but we have decided to think only of positive things, therefore, let us only think of positive things. So if in today's world even a beggar can have such self-respect, why should we give up our self-respect. There should be no pride, but self-respect should certainly be that of good work. Once in a while there will be a wave of self-respect but never take the path of helplessness. Because, needless to say, the day you choose the path of helplessness, the day and the moment your worth, your self-esteem is destroyed. Never look at someone else to decide what your personality should be like. Do introspection, where are we falling short, what will improve us, consider all aspects and then take the right decision. The world will never value you in mind. It is a bitter truth that we have to teach the world to value us. That's why self-respect and hard work are important. Spend very little time in life doing things that you like or that are very easy for you i.e. things that are easy for you and give all the rest of the time to things that are difficult for you, that you find difficult, that you don't like. This does not mean giving up all your hobbies and interests. On the contrary, hobbies are the only things that can be achieved by working hard on them. But there are some things that we like to do, but opposite to that do the thinks which you does not like. Which tests our patience, our endurance. One thing to always remember is that bitter things are always healthier which we don't like. E.g. bitter melon, we don't like to eat bitter melon, but it is very healthy. There are many things in life which are bitter but we have to accept them and move on. Live life like the English saying "Accept the situation and move on with a smile". That's why, always doing things in life which we don’t like for more time will also be very beneficial.

Learn yourself from situation to situation. You have to know how to handle the situation. Just doing actions without any prior thoughts and thinking about that actions and their outcomes will leave nothing more than damage to the situation. over time these things can become very difficult when you can't change yourself as the world’s requirement. The answer is to change yourself according the time and condition. Because it is irrelevant for someone to tell us that - "do change in yourself for your own benefit ". It’s best example is, the well-known company "Nokia" was in a quagmire because “Nokia” doesn’t upgraded itself as the world and world’s requirement. We should choose what our future is, we should make it, and we should live it as we dreamed it. But for all this things, firstly we should decide that what we can do in present for our future

Who we are or who I am, how I think, what I can do and being emotional in all this means that there is never a need in life to prove yourself to anyone. In fact, one should never seek to prove oneself to anyone in life. Just improve yourself today better than yesterday. Improve yourself a little bit every day between yesterday and today. Correct the mistakes you made yesterday and live your today better than yesterday. It is only to say that everyday we should be a little bit better than our yesterday selves. If you keep making such improvements every day, you will be your own "Mr. Perfect" on the last day of your life. let ignore the world, but from the time of you enter this world and till the last day of your life you will live every day as a different person, new and improved than yesterday, and the last day of your life you will be the best (Mr. Perfect) of your own life and no one can take that right away from you.

I tried my best to present only those thoughts that suddenly come out of my mind when there is a confusion of thoughts in my mind. Apologies if my meager intellect has put forth some wrong ideas though.