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My definition of first love: The person that I fell in love with for the first time in my life. The first time in my life when I felt that this person matters the most to me.

A man and a woman who met in the late 1980sYour first love is hard to forget because it leaves an  as teenagers and grew up together in the early 2000s. After 35 years, they meet again and try to rekindle their first love through memories. 

Your First Love Leaves An Imprint On Your Brain
Many times people experience falling in love for the first time in their teens. Adolescence is a period in which our memory and processing powers are at its peak. Since your memory is much stronger during this period, you’re much more likely to remember the experience of falling in love vividly.
Memories during your adolescent years leave hormonal imprints at the same time as your neurological developments are forming your identity.

These imprints can be intense and may elicit strong feelings when a memory is triggered. It’s why hearing that song you danced to or seeing a photo of them pop up on social media can bring you back and make you emotional.


Your First Love Affects The Way You Approach Your Future Relationships.
Once you've experienced something so good like falling in love for the first time, you're likely to chase after that feeling again and again. It's a major reason why people are hung up on their first love long after the relationship has ended.

Your first love may become the “behavioral template for future relationships.” You learn what you like so you can find it again. And, you’ll also realize what you don’t like so you can avoid it.

Our first love becomes a framework to judge future relationships which keeps the relationship alive in our memory, easily accessed and not forgotten. When we remember our first love as a comparison, we then trigger some of the neurochemistry associated with it, which only ensures the emotions associated with the memory stay active.

First loves are something you never forget as they are the first time you feel emotionally connected to someone. It's a great feeling to be able to be affectionate with another person and be a part of their lives. It's also a very new emotion that you go through and you need to completely trust the person.          

True love fosters a connection that goes beyond the superficial. It's a bond that often involves understanding each other's core values, beliefs, and life goals. This connection creates a sense of companionship, where both partners feel they're on the same team, working towards common dreams.  

First Love is pure.
It's pure and filled with innocence.

 That is one of the many things that makes first love so special and memorable. Nothing about first love is selfish or with a motive. Everything seems perfect and the happiness you feel like you won everyday in the lottery. 

There's no fixed timeline for when to say "I love you" in a relationship. It varies for each couple. Some say it early, while others take more time. It's important to say it when you genuinely feel it, and when you believe your partner is ready to hear it. 

Who is 1st love ?
My definition of first love:- The person that I fell in love with for the first time in my life. The first time in my life when I felt that this person matters the most to me. 

First Love is a crush. A crush merely means that you find that you really like someone, but as of yet have left it unexpressed. Puppy love is when a very young person, who yet has any real concept of what love is, thinks they are in love.

 First love is your real first relationship where both parties truly feel for each other. 

This is where you are now, Only you can make the decision to stay here and move into your future, rather than regressing into your past.

I love you.

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